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June 03, 2007

Adulthood, Dead Wood, Rhyming Takes Me Back to Childhood, Can I Stay There?

Is it just me, or is adulthood a LOT OF WORK?

I know, I have been an adult for a long time now, oh, twelve years. But tonight, scrambling to take care of the bare necessities of paperwork -- paying my bills, harangueing Blockbuster for credit card charges for the full value of the movie, just because I had to watch Jagged Edge NINETY TIMES for my stupid Law & Popular Culture paper (hello! no late fees = bullhonkey*), etc. -- I was struck by how much time it took. And how many dead trees.

I have done my best to sign up for only online statements for everything, but still some companies aren't doing it yet. I mean YOU, all my student loan providers! And I put EVERYTHING on auto-debit. That has helped immensely.

Still, the accoutrements of adulthood are often overwhelming. You've got your debt, your 401(k), your car, thank-you notes, dinner parties to buy wine for, calls to friends you've neglected, SO MANY THINGS.

And I don't even own a home! I cannot even imagine the added burden incurred by a real estate purchase.

Tell me I am not the only one drowning in a sea of responsibilities and dead wood. It's hard, right? Any strategies to keep afloat?

*Haha. I totally used the phrase "bull honkey." I have not done that since sixth grade. I am immediately incorporating it back into my daily lexicon.

Posted by jen at June 3, 2007 10:53 PM

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Luckily I pay all of my student loans online, although only one lender does paperless billing. the bulk of my loans sit with a company that still insists on sending me a paper bill each month that ends up clogging up my tiny mailbox. Hello. How are my Netflix rentals supposed to fit in the narrow box if you keep sending me paper bills?

And "bull honkey" was never a part of my lexicon, but I can see adding it after the school year ends. I'm sorry but the second word would be interpreted as a racially charged word by my students. Just like they interpreted my saying, "Read between the lines," when I was talking about a story last week in a bad way. Can someone please release me from this ring of hell?

Finally, why do you think that I have been trying to refuse to believe that I am an adult? If you had any doubt, it's because being an adult totally bites.

Posted by: Dagny at June 4, 2007 02:21 AM

netflix! blockbuster represents all that is evil!

don't remind me:( i'm becoming an adult in two months booooo to graduating college

Posted by: Penny at June 4, 2007 09:10 AM

Oh I'm with you on this and I can fill you in on the added stress of a real estate purchase. Being a single gal. Two teenagers. Dogs. Cats. Oh yes I can.

Posted by: Scarlett at June 4, 2007 09:47 AM

Solution: stay in school forever.

Posted by: Gloria at June 4, 2007 10:19 AM

I attended my youngest brother's high school graduation last weekend and I realized that I am old! This growing up business is for the birds. I informed my parentals that I would be moving home soon and would expect hot meals, laundry service, and an allowance. They laughed in my face and then talked about their plans for the fall. I want my Barbie dolls...

Posted by: Susannah at June 4, 2007 02:07 PM

I have no idea what you're talking about because I swear I am still 12 years old. A freaky mortgage-having, fancy shoe wearing, greying 12 year old.

Posted by: Librarian Girl at June 4, 2007 10:07 PM

The best thing I can say about adulthood, now that I've been one for 26 (!) years, is the booze-buying ability. And voting. Combining the two...priceless.

Posted by: Nancy Knits at June 5, 2007 03:19 PM

Drowning over here as well. Just wait until a parental estate is involved--you want to talk about growing up. Yuck. Nothing says "grown up" like discussing with a lawyer the disposal of assorted antiques and property belonging to the deceased.

Wow, I just realized how morbid and depressing that sounded! Truth is, adulthood IS a lot of work, and most of it isn't fun. I counter it with equal (to more than equal) doses of horseback riding, painting, knitting, sewing, playing with cats, reading blogs, and other fun things that remind me why I am glad to be alive. When it all gets to be too much, I read inspirational books such as Joe Vitale's "The Attractor Factor". (You thought I was gonna say something else, right?) For me, inspiration is anything that helps me figure out how to live this adult life better. I also eat plenty of chocolate. ;-)

Posted by: Jeanne B. at June 6, 2007 03:17 AM

Sorry dude. I went and tagged you for a meme. Please ignore it if you wish.

Posted by: Librarian Girl at June 6, 2007 06:46 PM

Well, some parts of adulthood bite. And some suck. (Such a vivid image!) But other parts are really great! As a mom, I have to say that I can see more clearly the parts of childhood that were not so hot, too. Like, say, potty training. And starting a new school.

I like being able to stay up late when I want, knitting and watching a movie. From Netflix. Really, they're much better.

Posted by: Anna-Liza at June 7, 2007 11:33 AM