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July 30, 2006
Drastic Measures
So, if you hadn't guessed from my lack of posting, there is a lack of SOMETHING in my life.
Last time I felt this way, I applied to law school. I decided in September, took the LSAT in October, applied in December and whoosh, now I'm in my third year!
The time before that I moved me and my ex from SF to LA (in a month). The time before that, I got this haircut:
Once, I got a tongue ring.
In any case, usually when I feel this way, I do something drastic to my body or locale. But now, I won't do a tattoo, I can't move.
So what do you do? What do normal people out there who don't move or make permanent/semi-permanent (damn, it took a long time for that cut to grow out!) changes do when they need to transform their lives? Become buddhists? Take up golfing?
What do you do?
Posted by jen at July 30, 2006 10:58 PM
Comments
Actually...I DID take up golf! And could kick myself for not doing it sooner!
Posted by: Barb at July 31, 2006 03:24 AM
I'm laughing - I play golf, too. But I don't think that's really what you're looking for... I think it's about doing something out of your comfort-zone, so that you know that life doesn't have to be as routine as it might feel (wonder if I am projecting much??...) so, maybe volunteering, taking a dance class, cooking class, or... taking a different way to get to work?
Posted by: wenders at July 31, 2006 04:13 AM
Short term: if I am at crossroads (tm Britney Spears) during the day, I jump in the shower. If I cannot make a decision about something - the shower always helps. That plus I am a rabid leg shaver.
Long term: I color my hair, get some bangs cut or tell myself that yes! you will scrapbook your wedding (5 years ago)/vacation to LA/Vegas/Iowa et al, and so forth. I will then proceed to buy $30 worth of scrapbooking supplies and tuck it away. Ha. Never producing a book. So OMG why am I even telling you this? I am a mess!
Ha! I love your blog - the banner graphic is the best!
Posted by: Princess of Power at July 31, 2006 06:37 AM
Rearrange the furniture and/or paint a wall. Other than that, you've got all mine covered, right down to the tongue ring and law school.
You could also start training for a half-marathon, which is my current plan once the weather is no longer deadly. Thirteen miles sounds much friendlier than 26, I think, but is still quite an accomplishment.
Posted by: Gwen at July 31, 2006 07:53 AM
TRAVEL, baby! Go on a big trip. Or apply to go into the Peace Corps.
Posted by: L at July 31, 2006 07:53 AM
Rearrange all the furniture in my place. Then I can pretend that I'm living in a new place. It's a little trickier in my current place so I painted a room instead.
I have gotten a henna tattoo. That way it's gone in a couple of weeks.
The nose piercing was feeling pretty satisfying a few weeks ago but now I'm itching for something else. I think I'm going to try to head up to Bodega sometime this week.
Posted by: Dagny at July 31, 2006 11:24 AM
Travel to Australia and experience a week on the piss with a monkey and his crazed friends?
When I am restless within my soul, I lean towards the creative. Write a song, a poem, make a pretty picture (i like pretty)...
Music is by far the single most important method of keeping sanity I've come across. When you start playing a song you like, or writing one, everything else seems to disappear from your mind... caught in the moment and the sounds. It's a form of meditation.
Do you play an instrument? If you don't - this could be a good thing to do. A skill you'll enjoy just as much when you're 70 as you do now.
Posted by: daniel at July 31, 2006 09:48 PM
COME TO CHICAGO FOR LOLLAPALOOZA.
ginger is coming. you've met her!
feelin' a little drastic myself. apartment swap? :) ha ha ha just kidding.
Posted by: carolyn at August 1, 2006 04:46 AM
de-lurking to say i'm in the same rut, so i'm thinking of trying out for a roller derby team! i hear they're huge in the States...
Posted by: brenda in toronto at August 1, 2006 09:38 AM
i put on my red and black cowboy boots, by $100 worth of bubble bath, and drive with the radio blaring and all the windows down.
seriously.
i'm not normal!
Posted by: jenny at August 2, 2006 09:06 PM
I wait till the feeling goes away or something drastic is decided for me, but I wouldn't advocate that approach. In fact, I could learn a lot from your track record!
Posted by: Anne at August 9, 2006 10:56 PM
Whatever you do, DO NOT take up printmaking.
Posted by: Logan the Great at August 10, 2006 04:46 AM
(over here via CAP's site, lurking, etc, but had to speak up...Also you said 'whatevs', which is my new fave slang. Annyywaaayy.). I recently wrote about similar issues...blue, lack of focus, etc etc. A friend wisely attributed it to our late 20s. Not helpful. But I think possibly true. Yet when I tried to get "over it" about a month ago, I got salmonella. So hoping that's not a sign.
Posted by: michelle at August 10, 2006 11:45 AM
